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Friday, December 5, 2025

WHY YOU NEED TO FORGIVE THOSE WHO HURT YOU

 


Forgiveness is almighty. Throughout lifetime and through the journey of individuals life, forgiveness is a gift. It can be a choice or an emotional spirit however trying to forget something a person has done is not easy and simple thing to bury. Some people hold grievances and bitterness for years and others just cannot wipe out the situation especially serious incidents. Forgiveness is a dedication to an individual that he or she has been forgiven, a process of change and a new start. It is very significant to give a soul another chance, everybody make mistakes. Nobody is perfect. Learning to accept others flaws create a healthy relationships. Forgiving someone takes ability and willingness before you can totally say that you have forgiven a person. It is a process between the soul and mind.

One of the reason why it is very important to forgive is because it is very difficult to grip hates and bitterness within our soul. It feels wonderful when a person is at peace with anyone not have to live each day of their lives worrying what a person has done to them. If someone is carrying grudges, they are only hurting themselves every time they focus on the particular object that happened to them. An excerpt from the Bible, “And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.” Keep in mind that everyone draw uncertain things because nobody is perfect. Let us learn to forgive so that our Father will yield our own sins. Importance of forgiving someone can heal an individual’s inner soul knowing that they finally released all the hates and burdens within them. This will help a person move on with their life.

Another reason why should we forgive because it leads to a healthier relationships. Can you resist not to talk to your best friend who just did not make it to your party because he or she had to study for a test? A person who is very dear to you will make an amend to get your sympathy but if you are numb not to understand the situation, it will be very difficult to accept their sorry. Personally when someone has done me wronged, it will take several days before I make a remedy to them. It is not as easy to bury what they have done but analyzing the whole situation aid us realize that it is harder to lose someone who is very dear to you. Forgiveness is healing and a process of making things healthier. It is a way for people to learn all their faults and start anew.

Forgiving someone else for the bad things that they have done to you may take years but it is a process that will help our soul heal from all the hatred that we have encountered. Forgiveness is a divine and should be granted. Within our soul and mind, there will always be a space for people’s mistakes, therefore, there will always be a chance to forgive them. -Arawwr (fb)

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Sabah to have quickest by-election as UMNO heavyweight Bung Mokthar succumbs to health complications

 

SABAH UMNO chief Datuk Seri Bung Moktar Radin has breathed his last at 1.46am today (Dec 5), less than a week after retaining the Lamag state seat with a 153-vote majority in the 17th Sabah polls.

The passing of the 66-year-old six-term Kinabatangan MP was confirmed by his son Naim Kurniawan – the Kinabatangan UMNO Youth chief – via a Facebook post.

The Sabah UMNO chairman had earlier been reported to be in critical condition following complications involving his lungs, heart and kidneys.

Bung Moktar who is best remembered for his tendency of making controversial remarks and inflammatory behaviour made his maiden breakthrough in Sabah politics when he won the 1999 general election by defeating Parti Bersatu Sabah (PBS) candidate Ali Latip Taha for the Kinabatangan parliamentary seat.

He managed to retain the seat in the 2004, 2008, 2013, 2018 and 2022 general elections. Since joining politics in 1978, he had been a staunch Barisan Nasional (BN) politician by sticking to being a USNO/UMNO representative.

All in all, he had served as an MP under six different Prime Ministers: Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad, the late Tun Abdullah Ahmad Badawi, Datuk Seri Najib Razak, Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin, Datuk Seri Ismail Sabri Yaakob and Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim.

Bung Moktar’s demise means that Sabah now braces for possibly its quickest by-election even when dust from its recent state polls have yet to settle, particularly that surrounding the total DAP wipe-out and PKR’s miserable outing (only won one seat) which signifies Pakatan Harapan (PH)/peninsula parties’ rejection.

Under Article 54(1) of the Federal Constitution, if a casual vacancy arises in the Dewan Rakyat, it shall be filled within 60 days from the date on which it is established by the Election Commission (EC) that there is a vacancy.

Interestingly, the fate of Bung Moktar’s on-going corruption case now hangs in the balance.

Recall that he was charged on May 3, 2019 by the Malaysian Anti-Corruption Commission (MACC) with three counts of corruption amounting to total of RM2.8 mil in June 2015 when he was director of FELCRA Bhd.

His wife, Datin Seri Zizie Ezette Abdul Samad was also charged with abetting her husband in the offences.

Both the Kinabatangan MP and his wife were initially acquitted and discharged on Sept 7, 2023 after the High Court allowed their revision applications to overturn a Sessions Court ruling on Sept 2, 2022 that had ordered them to enter their defence on the corruption charges.

But the prosecution filed its appeal against the acquittal on Sept 18, 2023 following which the Court of Appeal ordered both Bung Moktar and Zizie Izette to enter their defence on three corruption charges involving RM2.8 mil related to the Felcra Bhd investment. –  Focus Malaysia

Police's integrity at stake, Muda says over Durian Tunggal shooting

Alarmed by the conflicting accounts surrounding the fatal police shooting in Durian Tunggal, Malacca, Muda said the integrity of the police is at stake.

As such, Muda information chief Leben Siddarth urged the government to investigate the case transparently, without being influenced by any quarters.

“While we welcome Bukit Aman’s decision to take over the investigation, this alone is not enough.

“What Malaysians need is a transparent, impartial, and exhaustive inquiry, one that is free from influence or institutional bias.

“And we stress that public confidence in the police cannot be taken lightly. Any perception of misconduct, abuse of power, or mishandling of lethal force demands immediate and unquestionable transparency,” he said in a statement today.

Muda information chief Leben Siddarth

Two days ago, the families of three men who were shot dead in Malacca rejected the police’s account that the victims had attacked officers, citing an alleged audio recording of the incident.

The wife of one of the victims, who wished to be identified only as Jayashree, managed to record a phone conversation with her husband, G Logeswaran, 29, during the incident.

She said based on the recording last Monday (Nov 24), the three could be heard cooperating with the police as they were being detained.

She also said the recording did not show the victims behaving in a threatening manner as alleged.

‘Act against errant officers’

Subsequently, Bukit Aman announced that it had established a team to investigate the case, including the police reports lodged by the victims’ family members.

Leben warned the authorities against any moves to cover up or distort facts of the case, stressing officers who uphold the law must not be undermined by bad apples.

He also urged the authorities to throw the book at those responsible, regardless of their rank or position.

“We remind the government that justice must not only be done, but must be seen to be done,” Leben added.

Yesterday, counsel Rajesh Nagarajan, who is representing the victims’ families, said the officers who shot the men should be charged with murder.

Counsel Rajesh Nagarajan

He also refuted the police version of the event, which claimed the men had attacked the police officers with machetes and caused serious injuries to one of them.

“With reference to the forensic audio analyst’s report, which states that no such incident was recorded from the moment the car was stopped, I am of the opinion that this must be a pure fabrication by the police.

“The audio is clear, the evidence is clear; the police had the three individuals in their custody for more than 10 minutes before the three individuals were shot and murdered.

“The police officers in Malacca must be charged under Section 302 of the Penal Code for murder,” Rajesh stressed. - Mkini

Health centre raid: Has govt lost the plot?

YOURSAY | ‘It seems more like an overeager ‘name and shame’ exercise.’

Men health centre patrons mull legal action; cite trauma, privacy breach

Koel: I agree with the health centre patrons 100 percent. Sue the pants off the enforcement and the ministry that justified this ridiculous raid on a gym.

The integrity of our laws and our rights must be tested. If found wanting, we must then push for change.

So, are gyms now vulnerable to raids by authorities?

Many gyms have common shower facilities, so if a person is caught in such a raid in a shower area with his or her towel, will they be humiliated in this same manner?

Meanwhile, the country has real problems with enforcement agencies being implicated in disappearances, extrajudicial killings, child abduction, and the suspicious death of political aide Teoh Beng Hock.

We read the explosive details of the International Federation of Association Football (Fifa) reports that have accused Malaysia of corruption over citizenship for foreign footballers.

We read about bribery and corruption allegations in some of the highest offices in a certain state.

We hear about court orders to the government to pay compensation for what amounts to state-sponsored kidnappings.

We have a family waiting for 16 years for the return of a kidnapped child.

We share the anguish of the Teoh family, who have been made fools of by the succeeding governments and home ministries.

Where are the culprits and crooks of these real allegations of criminality?

And in the midst of all this chaos, is the Home Ministry focused on harassing and bullying a bunch of gym goers? Has this government completely lost the plot?

KK Voter: What sort of “surveillance” was conducted? Bird-watching with telescopes and binoculars?

Did they even send an undercover police officer to pose as a customer and ask for “extra” services?

This seems more like an overeager “name and shame” exercise to me.

Also, speaking from experience, coaching several related businesses, this industry, just like the licensed alcohol-serving industry, health spa sector, and karaoke bars, is notorious for underhanded competition.

For example, paying someone to start a bar fight and then calling the police, or making false reports/tips (as “concerned citizens,” of course).

Did the police even consider that possibility?

Patrons who know they did nothing wrong should sue the Royal Malaysian Police and the home minister (for his statement) to set a precedent that the authorities must respect the law themselves.

Outlier: Is this a Turkish bath, an all-male sauna or what?

Police didn’t make clear the nature of the establishment and just jumped to conclusions that when a group of males congregate, it must be a gay club.

Then, on the other hand, if there are women present, then it becomes a “vice” place.

Really, it’s a no-win situation for private rights, perhaps just to enjoy a traditional Turkish bath, a Japanese or Korean-style bathhouse exclusively for males.

BobbyO: A health gym consists of an exercise area, a health bar that serves drinks and even a sauna.

With these facilities, there will be some clients who will walk in the nude before they enter the sauna or even a steam room.

Looks like a health gym is now classified as not a safe place to go. The authorities now declare that immoral activities take place in them.

Those who have gone through mental anguish due to the raid, lost their jobs or relationships with relatives and friends, and have turned sour, should definitely sue the authorities.

GrizzledWarrior: The health centre is not a “public place”. It is a private business premises.

Visitors to a private premises have:

(a) a reasonable expectation that only staff and other customers will be present;

(b) an expectation that authorities cannot usually wander in without a legal basis (warrant or statutory power);

(c) a higher expectation of privacy than if they were in a public street or park.

Visitors to the health centre enter with permission from the owner of the business and/or proprietor.

If Home Minister Saifuddin Nasution Ismail claims there is no privacy right at all for detainees or invitees, this is legally debatable.

The constitutional jurisprudence suggests there is an expectation of some privacy right under Article 5(1) of the Federal Constitution.

But if Saifuddin's point is that “privacy rights” don’t automatically block law-enforcement powers (search, raid, detention, mandatory inspections) - that has more weight.

Even in jurisdictions with strong privacy laws, police or authorities often have statutory or constitutional powers to enter or search premises under certain conditions (crime investigation, arrest, security and so on). In Malaysia, too, statutory powers may permit intrusion when lawfully exercised.

Given how unsettled the law is on “invasion of privacy”, a blanket dismissal of “privacy concerns” especially in a sensitive context like a health centre, seems legally problematic.

At least, from a civil-liberties / human-rights perspective, it warrants scrutiny and likely needs justification (proportionality, necessity, lawful basis).

The men detained in that raid do have arguable grounds to claim that their privacy was breached, particularly if there was a non-consensual recording, exposure, or other intrusive conduct.

The question of whether they will succeed in mounting a legal cause of action grounded in invasion of privacy is a matter best left to our courts to decide.

As things stand, the home minister’s dismissal of privacy concerns appears legally questionable, especially if he implies privacy does not exist or is irrelevant as a matter of law.

Less haste and more precision in execution would be appreciated. A greater appreciation of the legal niceties would certainly help.

Robbie98: The rights of the individuals in the spa were violated, period.

As the magistrate, who refused to give an order to the police to retain them in police custody, stated clearly and correctly, there is no complainant, and no improper or criminal act was recorded.

Moral policing has always been an act of voyeurism and has no value or legal standing in a democratic society.

The lives of the young men whose pictures were exhibited by social and news media have been tarnished, their families put to shame, their jobs jeopardised, to show the righteousness of some self-appointed chief of Malaysian moral society.

GrayWhale9636: The police conducted a raid for suspected vice activities and " immoral behaviour".

I think such raids are common, and probably the majority of people do not really question them.

Those centres and their customers who are shown to be involved must be charged and punished by existing laws.

But herein lies the question from a layperson like me.

Why were these people not formally charged?

And how and why were their details, especially place of work, leaked ( revealed?) to the public?

Frankly speaking, I have rarely bothered to read such news past the headlines, but I must admit I have never come across such an exposé on their specific occupation before in previous news of such raids.

This is probably the main reason this issue has gained so much traction in the news. - Mkini